Ep. 76 – Conflict

In leadership—and in life—conflict is unavoidable. But it’s not the conflict itself that defines you—it’s how you show up in the middle of it.

In this episode of Pillar Talk, Chris Ross unpacks the lessons he’s learned about navigating conflict over the years, both professionally and personally. He challenges the belief that conflict is always destructive and reframes it as a powerful tool for growth, connection, and leadership—if you approach it the right way.

Chris walks through key mindset shifts that leaders need to adopt when facing hard conversations, and he emphasizes the importance of clarity, humility, and emotional regulation. Instead of dodging tension or sugarcoating feedback, he encourages listeners to show up with strength and grace—to be someone who can hold the line without burning the bridge.

You’ll also hear how unresolved tension can wreak havoc in teams and relationships—and why direct communication is one of the highest forms of care. Whether you’re leading a team, working with your family, or trying to grow as a person, this episode is a masterclass in turning friction into forward momentum.

Because real leadership isn’t about avoiding conflict. It’s about getting better at handling it.

🎧 Tune in to learn:

• Why the discomfort of conflict is worth it
• How to lead with both clarity and compassion
• The hidden cost of unresolved tension
• How to communicate without breaking trust